Friday, May 15, 2009

Overheard in Recovery - Shame and Guilt

From a lecture by a friend to people in early recovery:

We need to turn our shame into guilt so it's repairable.
As the old saying goes- I have guilt when I do bad things. I have shame when I feel I am bad. Therefore it is a good thing to move away from the issues of shame, look at the actions for which we may rightly feel guilty, and then repair our lives through
  • admission,
  • amends, and
  • forgiveness.

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